अकेलापन

अकेलापन डरावना नहीं होता, अगर हम उसे समझें।

एकांत में मन की आवाज़ सबसे स्पष्ट सुनाई देती है।

ये समय होता है खुद से मिलने का, खुद को समझने का।

भागती दुनिया से कुछ पल चुराकर, जब हम खुद के साथ बैठते हैं,

तभी असली शांति का अनुभव होता है।

अकेलापन हमें डराता है, क्योंकि हमने हमेशा बाहर की दुनिया को प्राथमिकता दी है।

पर कभी उस मौन को सुनिए, जो भीतर गूंजता है –

वह आपकी अधूरी बातों, अनकहे सपनों और दबे हुए जज़्बातों की पुकार है।

जब हम खुद के साथ समय बिताते हैं,

तो हमें दूसरों से नहीं, अपने आप से प्यार करना आता है।

यह सफर बाहर से भीतर की ओर होता है –

जहाँ शोर नहीं होता, पर जवाब जरूर मिलते हैं।

अकेलापन कोई खालीपन नहीं,

बल्कि आत्मा की सबसे गहराई से मुलाक़ात है।

और जब हम खुद को समझ लेते हैं,

तो दुनिया को समझना थोड़ा आसान हो जाता है।

Jagriti Srivastava 

प्रकृति से जुड़ाव: जीवन में संतुलन

पेड़, पंछी, नदियाँ और आसमान — ये सिर्फ़ दृश्य नहीं हैं, ये हमारे अंदर की शांति के स्रोत हैं। जब हम प्रकृति से जुड़ते हैं, तो मन स्वतः शांत हो जाता है। ज़रा सुबह की धूप को महसूस कीजिए, या बारिश की बूँदों को छू लीजिए — आपको एक अनकही ऊर्जा का अहसास होगा। प्रकृति इस संसार की सबसे अनुपम और अद्भुत रचना है। इसमें पहाड़, नदियाँ, समुद्र, वृक्ष, फूल और अनेक प्रकार के जीव-जंतु शामिल हैं। सूर्योदय का दृश्य, फूलों की खुशबू और पक्षियों की मधुर ध्वनि मन को प्रसन्नता से भर देती है। हरे-भरे खेत, नीला आकाश और ठंडी हवाएँ हमें शांति का अनुभव कराती हैं। हर ऋतु प्रकृति की अलग-अलग सुंदरता को प्रकट करती है, चाहे वह बसंत की बहार हो या शरद की चाँदनी रात। प्रकृति न केवल सौंदर्य का स्रोत है, बल्कि यह जीवन के लिए आवश्यक संसाधन भी प्रदान करती है। आज की भागदौड़ भरी दुनिया में प्रकृति के पास बैठकर मन को सुकून मिलता है। इसका सौंदर्य हमारे तन-मन दोनों को तरोताजा कर देता है। हमें प्रकृति की इस अनमोल विरासत की रक्षा करनी चाहिए। यदि हम प्रकृति से प्रेम करेंगे, तो प्रकृति भी हमें दोगुना लौटाएगी। 

 जागृति श्रीवास्तवा 🍀

I am Back ❤️

 Why I Stopped Writing… and Why I’m Coming Back

There was a time when I used to write from my heart — freely, without fear.  

Words used to flow like they had waited for me for years.  

And then… I stopped.

Not because I ran out of thoughts.  

Not because I didn’t feel anymore.  

But because someone pointed out that my grammar wasn’t right.

A small comment. Maybe even innocent.  

But for someone like me — who feels everything deeply — it was enough to make me question everything.  

Instead of correcting my grammar, I stopped writing altogether.  

And what hurt more was that… I stayed away from my words for *years*.

But now, after all this time, I’ve realized something very important:

Mistakes can be corrected. But the silence of a writer’s heart? That hurts more.

I’m not here to impress anyone.  

I’m not here to write “perfectly.”  

I’m here because my heart has waited long enough.  

And my voice deserves to live again — even with flaws, even with shaky fingers.

This blog may not reach thousands.  

But if it reaches even one person who feels the same — who once gave up on something they loved —  

then let this be a reminder:

> You can return.  

> You can begin again.  

> And your voice still matters.

So yes… I’m writing again. Slowly. Softly. Honestly.

Thank you for reading,  

Even if it’s been a while.  

Even if this is your first time here.  

I’m grateful.

— Jagriti 🌿

Believe in yourself

Self believe is the positive feeling you have inside that tells you that you are capable of anything and some people with negative self belief probably let many things go by undone.

There are so many things you let slip just because you have lack of belief and doubt yourself 

Doubts such as: can I really do this?

 other people are far better than me or you may think - what will other think if you say or do this?

but the thing is that if you want more in life you need to stop telling yourself that you can't or someone else is better than you or you wish you were like anyone else 

The ability to believe in yourself can change your life.

By believing in yourself, you will find the courage to take immediate action on your goals and this is as you may know is a key to success. 

Never compromise your potential to grow due to self-limiting doubts. Instead, embrace your confidence and believe in yourself because you really can do anything you put your mind to.  

If you believe in yourself to be a good person, you will expect good things to happen to you and if you expect good things to happen to you, you will be positive, cheerful and future oriented.

No matter how good you are at something, there will always be somebody better than you so stop focusing on this, stop comparing yourself to others.

And a very important part of self belief comes from knowing your weaknesses and being relaxed about them.

When you accept your weaknesses as a part of you, you start to be more confident.

 Self confidence does a lot of things for us. It boots our self-esteem, diminishes stress and often pushes us to act. But most importantly, it makes us feel good about ourselves.

Without self belief nothing can be accomplished. With it nothing is impossible.

रास्ते की परवाह किए बगैर जो बेफिक्र कदम बढ़ाता है अंत में अपनी मंजिलों को बस वही शख्स पा पाता है

खुद पर रखकर विश्वास जो सच्चाई को अपनाता है

बस वही सफलता का परचम पूरी दुनिया पर लहराता है।

                                        Jagriti Srivastava

Poem

मुझे खुद से शिकायते हजार हैं
ना जाने और कितने मेरी तरह गुनाहगार है
खुद पर किया मुकदमा लड़ा जाता नहीं
अपनी गवाही को यह दिल पेश कर पाता नहीं
कई किस्से दफन हैं किसी कोने में मन के
इन्हें सुनने वाला कोई मगर नजर हमें आता नहीं
हजारों दलीलें देने पर भी अर्जी खारिज हो जाती है
ना जाने जिंदगी हमें किस जुर्म की सजा सुनाती है
सजा-ए-मौत दे दे या रिहा कर दे अब
यूं हर तारीखों पर अपनी सच्चाई की वकालत
                                   अब हमसे की जाती नहीं

                    Jagriti Srivastava

Love you Maa

I love you mom – not just because you are my mother, but because there is no one else in the world who understands me better.
I fight with you every now and then, I keep arguing again and again. But deep down inside I hope that your heart knows, that my love for you will forever grow
The size of my love for you knows no bounds. You’re the only person in the world who knows what my heart sounds like from inside me.

Maa, thanks for not just being proud of my strengths but also never being ashamed of my weaknesses. Love ya.

सब मुझे पहचानते हैं पर वो मुझे जानती है
प्यार मुझे सब करते हैं पर वो दुलारती है
गुस्सा तो सभी होते हैं पर वो मुझे डांटती है
खाने को तो सभी पूछते हैं  पर वो अपने हाथो से खिलाती है
मौत तो आनी ही है एक दिन  पर वो हमें जीना सिखाती है
वो मां ही है जो हर कदम पर साथ निभाती है
कितना भी रूठ लो वो अगले पल, मनाने खुद ही चली
आती है
खाना तुम ना खाओ तो भूखे पेट वो भी सो जाती है
वो मां ही है जो हर कदम पर साथ निभाती है
  गलती पर जोर से चिल्लाती है  
  पर हमारी खुशियों के लिए सारी दुनिया से वो लड़ जाती है
  कामयाबी पर हमारे जश्न वहीं मनाती है
  टूट कर हम बिखरते हैं पर हमसे ज्यादा आंसू वही बहाती है
वो मां ही है जो हर कदम पर साथ निभाती है
मेरे गुनाहों को चुटकी में माफ किए जाती है
  हर बात पर मुझे सीने से वो लगाती है
  वो मां ही है जो हर कदम पर साथ निभाती है

                        जागृति श्रीवास्तव
 

क्यों ना

जमाने में गम और भी कई है इश्क़ के अलावा भी
फिर क्यों प्यार करके यूं दिल को अपने दुखाया जाए
मौसम कई आते है मुस्कुराने के
तो क्यों ना बदलते मौसमो के साथ मुस्कुराया जाए
तरीके तो और भी कई है दर्द मिटाने के
फिर क्यों हार कर यूं मैखाने की तरफ़ जाया जाए
ऐसा करे कि चंद पानी कि बूंदो से ही
              अंदर लगी इस आग को मिटाया जाए
बुराइयां तो खुद में भी लाखो भरी है
  फिर क्यों किसी और को गुनाहगार बनाया जाए
  खुदा को छोड़कर उपर ही
              क्यों ना इंसान बनकर ही दिखाया जाए    
           तोड़ना तो तूफान का काम होता है
      क्यों ना किसी के जुड़ने का जरिया बन जाया जाए
   तो फिर छितिज बनकर ही
क्यों ना जमीन और आसमान को मिलाया जाए     
कामयाबी पर तो खुश सभी होते हैं
क्यों ना अब बर्बादियो का जश्न मनाया जाय
कोई सो सके चैन कि नींद
इसके लिए अपनी कुछ राते क्यों ना जाग कर ही बिताया जाए ।
           
                   Jagriti Srivastava
                                                    
                              
                              

चुनाव 2019

हमारे देश में इस समय चुनावी माहौल चल रहा है। हर तरफ सिर्फ इसी बात की चर्चा हो रही है तो मैंने भी सोचा कि इस मुद्दे पर थोड़ा प्रकाश डाला जाए ।
मेरा यह ब्लॉग किसी विशेष राजनीतिक पार्टी या उसकी अच्छाई बुराई को लेकर नहीं है यहां सिर्फ मैंने अपने अनुभव को साझा करने का प्रयास किया है।

मैं इस चुनाव में पहली बार वोट करने जा रही हूं तो मैंने सोचा इस बात पर चर्चा करना बहुत आवश्यक है कि किस पार्टी को वोट दिया जाए और क्यों ?
हम सब जानते हैं कि वोट करना हमारा एक महत्वपूर्ण कर्तव्य है पर क्या सिर्फ वोट कर देने से हमारा कर्तव्य पूरा हो जाता है ?
हमें इस बात को सोचना चाहिए कि हम जिस पार्टी को वोट दे रहे हैं वह हमारे और हमारे देश के लिए कितनी कारगर है तथा उस पार्टी के नेता कैसे हैं और भी बहुत सारी बातें हैं जो हमें अपना वोट देने से पहले सोचना चाहिए पर हमारे पास इस चीज के लिए समय ही नहीं है ।
वोट देकर फोटो क्लिक कर के सोशल मीडिया पर पोस्ट करने का समय हम सबके पास है पर उसके पहले थोड़ा सा समय निकाल कर राजनीतिक पार्टीयो की अच्छाई बुराई सोचने का समय हमारे पास नहीं है।
वैसे फोटो पोस्ट करना बुरी बात नहीं है क्योंकि ऐसा करने से आप दूसरों को भी वोट देने के लिए प्रेरित कर रहे हो जो कि अच्छा है परंतु मेरा कहना सिर्फ इतना है कि हम जिस पार्टी को वोट दे रहे हैं वह हमारे लिए आगे चलकर सही साबित होनी चाहिए वरना फिर आगे चल कर आप अपने ही चुने हुए नेता को गालियां देना शुरू कर देते हो।
मैं हैरान रहती हूं नेता जी लोगों का भाषण सुनकर यह चुनाव के दौरान जितने मुद्दों पर बात करते हैं अगर सच में उन मुद्दों पर थोड़ा सा भी कार्य करना शुरू कर दे तो देश का सही मायनों में विकास हो सकता है।

इस बात को लेकर मैंने अपने घर और बाहर दोनों जगह चर्चा की और हैरानी की बात है कि आधे से ज्यादा लोगों को कोई परवाह ही नहीं है कि किसकी सरकार बन रही है , उन्हें परेशानी तब होती है जब उनके किसी काम में सरकारी रुप से अरचन जाती है तो वह सरकार उनके लिए बुरी हो जाती है और अगर उस सरकार के रहने पर उनके सभी धंधे सही से चल रहे हैं तो उनके लिए वह सरकार अच्छी है।

यह माना जाता है कि देश का भविष्य उसकी युवा पीढ़ी के हाथ में है पर आजकल की युवा पीढ़ी तो वोटिंग से ज्यादा अपने मोबाइल इंटरनेट को लेकर गंभीर है।
हमारे देश का युवा जाग कर भी सो रहा है बड़े शर्म की बात है।

एक बात मैं बहुत ही खुले शब्दों में कहना चाहूंगी कि वर्तमान समय में हमारे देश में कोई भी ऐसी राजनीतिक पार्टी नहीं है जो हमारी देश की बागडोर चलाने के लायक हो।
अभी चुनावी माहौल में भले ही आपको नेताजी लोग सड़कों पर लोगो कि मदद करते हुए नजर आ रहे होंगे परंतु चुनाव बाद ये सब अपने घरों में आराम से  AC की हवा ले रहे होंगे और आम जनता गर्मी और बरसात से बेहाल हो रही होगी तब आपको यह नजर नहीं आएंगे।

कुल मिलाकर मेरे कहने का मतलब यही है कि ऐसी पार्टी को वोट करें कि आगे चलकर आपको पछताना न पड़े और हां एक और छोटी सी बात कहना चाहूंगी कि इस देश के नागरिक तो आप भी है ना आप को इस देश ने बहुत कुछ दिया है तो थोड़ा फर्ज तो आपका भी बनता है कि कहीं अगर कुछ गलत हो रहा है तो उसे सुधारने का प्रयास किया जाए ।
लोकतंत्रात्मक राज्य में अगर लोकतंत्र की ही स्थिति खराब रहेगी तो हम उन राजनीतिक पार्टियों का क्या भरोसा करें जो सिर्फ अपने फायदे के लिए जनता का इस्तेमाल करती है।
आप अपने कर्तव्य के प्रति खुद जागरूक हो जाइए।
यह देश हम सबका है इसे मिलकर सुधारने का प्रयास हम सबको करना चाहिए तभी हमारा भविष्य सुंदर और सुखी रहेगा।

                              जागृति श्रीवास्तव

Basic first aid

This blog of mine is slightly different than the rest of the blogs.
As I have thought to share some first aid information.

First aid refers to the emergency or immediate care you should provide when a person is injured or ill until full medical treatment is available. For minor conditions, first aid care may be enough. For serious problems, first aid care should be continued until more advanced care becomes available.

FRACTURES
IMMOBILISE  it with a well padded stiff support reaching the joints on either side. Apply bandages on either side of the site and at the joints on either side support.

RESPIRATION
If it is failing, give artificial respiration- mouth to mouth or mouth to nose.

NOSE BLEEDING
Sit him of facing the breeze and the head slightly forward. ask him to breath through the mouth and not to blow the nose. Apply a cold compress over the nose. The soft part of the nose maybe pinched close with the finger for 10 minutes. Cold application on the back of the neck and forehead may help.

BEE STING
Do not press the bag (of the sting)
use foreceps and remove the sting. Apply cold or weak ammonia.

BURNS
Flush the burned area with cool running water for several minutes. Do not use ice.
Apply a light gauze bandage.Do not apply ointments, butter, or oily remedies to the burn.

SHAKE BITES
Keep patient calm. Wash with plenty of water and do not rub hard. First apply a constructive bandage on the heart side of the bite. do not incise or attempt to suck the wound. Get aid quickly. Try to identify the snake.

BLEEDING
Arrest the bleeding and protect the ground. Apply director indirect pressure. Cover with a dressing. Apply a pad or firm bandage. keep at rest.

FAINTING
Lay them down and loosen the clothing around chest and waist.  Turn head to one side. The legs may be raise a little.
Do not attempt to give any solid or liquid.
On recovery a small quantity of a drink may be given and allowed to sit up and move after rest.

EYE INJURIES

Cover both eyes with sterile dressings or eye cups to immobilize.
Covering both eyes will minimize the movement of the injured eye.
DO NOT rub or apply pressure, ice, or raw meat to the injured eye.
If the injury is a black eye, you may apply ice to cheek and area around eye, but not directly on the eyeball itself.

As well as knowing some basic first aid techniques, it is important that households and workplaces have a first aid kit that meets their needs and is well organised, fully stocked and readily available at all times.

STAY FIT AND HEALTHY. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.
    
              THANK YOU:)

Be fit

            
       तू कर मेहनत तो खुदा भी तेरा साथ देगा
          वरना कायरों को तो किस्मत ही दगा देगा ।।

In the past few months I had faced so many physical problems and the reason I found is my careless behaviour towards my health.

As we grow up, we have a lot of responsibilities on our shoulders but somewhere in these responsibilities, we became careless towards ourselves. this leads to illness and many more physical problems.
The preservation of health is much easier than the cure of the disease.

If I talk about myself it's my bad habit that I do not pay attention to my diet properly.
We all have Heard this from Benjamin Franklin "Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy wealthy and wise."
We should have the habit of sleeping and eating on time.
My best friend always advise me to do yoga but I am such a lazy person that I do once or twice in a month and then I stop doing.
Laziness is the biggest enemy of our body.
We all know how physical fitness is important in our life still only few are conscious about it.

Read it somewhere which is very true "When diet is wrong medicine is of no use.
When diet is correct medicine is of no need."
My physical illness affect my studies also.
It leads to Lack of concentration and also I lost my self confidence because of this. one day I realised I'm not the same I was before

The most important thing in life is to be conscious about your health.
As it has been said Health is Wealth.
it is absolutely true.
And health is something which you can’t buy you can’t rent. You have to earn it."
Leading a healthy lifestyle sounds easy enough, right? Could be, but there are a lot of obstacles trying to divert our attention from eating healthy, making healthy choices, and exercising. 

The mind and body are not separate. What affects the one affects other.

I am sharing this with you all because I don't want you all to do the same mistake I have done.
I want you all to be fit, healthy and happy in your life.
Take care of your body it is the only place you have to live in.

One is able to achieve it easily if the decision is firm.

हम सब अपनी जिंदगी के हीरो हैं
हर रोज नई जंग लड़ते हैं
                     हर रोज गिरते और संभलते हैं
हर रोज एक नई मुसीबत हमारा इंतजार कर रही होती है
  हर रोज एक नई परेशानी से हम कुछ नया सीखते हैं
हर रोज सूरज की पहली किरण से चांदनी रात तक
जीवन के संघर्षों को झेलते रहते हैं
सुखी भविष्य की चाह में वर्तमान की बलि देते रहते है
हर रोज जमाने भर के ताने सुनते हैं
हर रोज सही और गलत में किसी एक को चुनते हैं
ऐसे ही हर रोज जिंदगी का कारवां चलता रहता है
और हम अपना एक पड़ाव पार कर लेते हैं ।
   
                                Jagriti Srivastava

Women Power

Wishing a very happy international women's Day to all the beautiful women in the world AND, AND, AND  a very happy anniversary to my blog.               
   Yes, today completed two years of my blog.                                                       Thank you so much all of you for supporting me and I hope I get support like this in future too. 

We Celebrates 8^th March, every year, the significance of International Women’s Day is increasing year after year and has become a custom today. It appears as a celebration of respect, appreciation, love and care towards women.

Today’s woman is no longer a dependent soul; she is Independent and self-reliant in every respect and is capable of doing everything. Let’s recognise the importance of their existence and motivate them for the future achievements.

We all should owe this responsibility to appreciate and respect every women present in our lives. They are the best blend of teachings and affections.

In all parts of the world, women are facing threats to their lives, health and well being as a result of being over burdened with work and of their lack of power and influence. In most region of the World, women receive less formal education than men, and at the same time, women's own knowledge, abilities and coping mechanism often go unrecognised.

The Right to Education (RTE) Act in India mandates free and compulsory primary education for all children aged 6-14 years.

However, India is still home to millions of out-of-school girls (who have either never been enroled or have dropped out). Especially in rural communities, many girls lack access to quality education and have minimal understanding of their rights. More often than not they cannot contribute towards the progress and development of the country due to lack of education.

literacy of women is an important key to improving health, nutrition and education in the family and to empowering women to participate in decision-making in society....

An estimated 140 million girls will become child brides between 2011 and 2020 . Girls who marry before age 18 are typically denied an education, at risk of complications related to premature childbearing, and more vulnerable to intimate partner violence. 

The World Health Organization estimates that 800 women die every day from preventable,pregnancy related causes. That’s nearly 300,000 lives per year needlessly lost during what is fundamentally a life-creating event. What more is there to say?

I feel that woman should be respected not just because they are women, but also because they are individuals with their own identity. They contribute equally to the betterment of the society. If I can be little biased then I would say, if there is no woman on the earth then mankind would cease to exist because it’s a woman who brings life to this earth. Every woman is special whether she is working at home or office or doing both. She plays an important role in the upbringing of children and managing their home efficiently.

Women today have got equal potential provided they are been trusted and valued. Today’s women realize their strengths and abilities and step out in order to contribute to the society and the world consequently.

रोशन इनसे घर द्वार है, इनसे बनता संसार है            ये वो कलियां है बागो की जिनसे खुशियां गुलज़ार हैं.      ममता की ये एक मूरत हैं भरा इनमें प्यार अपार है   ये जगत कुछ नहीं इनके बिना                                                            जीवन का ये आधार हैं                 हैं शक्ति का ये रूप जहां सुंदरता की परिभाषा है   इनके होने से जीवन में सब के रहती एक आशा  है रंग रूप का भेद भुलाकर के हम नारी का सम्मान करें   ना उसका दिल दुखे कभी, ना नारी का अपमान करें    वह घर के अपनी शान है घरवालों का अभिमान है  वो श्रृष्टि के रचयिता की सबसे बड़ी पहचान है ।

                         Jagriti Srivastava  

LIFE LESSON

I wake up every morning with new hopes, beliefs and confidence that my tomorrow will be better than my yesterday.
Life is an echo. What you send out, comes back. What you sow,you reap.
What you give,you get. What you see in others, exists in you. Do not judge, so you will not be judged. Radiate and give love and love will come back to you.
I keep trying to make myself capable enough so that I can build a great future for myself and for my loved ones . 
Without worrying about life's ups and downs, I am preparing myself to face everything that comes in my way.
I know that I have to see some bad days and some nights without sleep but that doesn't mean it will gonna debilitate my courage.
Life isn't meant to be easy, it's meant to be lived. Sometimes happy, other times rough...
But every up and down you learn lessons that make you strong.

One thing i knows is that no matter what happens, life does not stop, it keeps going.....
We have to move step by step with life and one day we'll reach on the high peak, where we always wanted to reach.
one day we will achieve our goals If we keep going without fear of failure.
I keep saying this to myself, stop stressing everything will be ok.
I know my capabilities and I don't need to prove it to others. I know how far I can go.
And also I do not even have to think that what other people think about me.
I just have to do my work and get my destination. 

Whenever you find doubting yourself that how far you can go, just remember how far you have come.
Remember everything you have faced, all the battles you have won and all the fears you have overcome.

In life sometimes we take good decision and sometimes bad and we have to pay for it.
Although our life is completely our responsibility but sometimes just because of some situation we are not able to do the things that we wanted to do and also do something which we don't wanted to do and later we regret for those things.
Regretting is not bad every time but regretting for unnecessary things is also not fair.
Don't be pushed around by the fears in your mind. Be led by the dreams in your heart.
I have big dreams and I love those people who support me and stood by me.
I know I can do maybe right now my speed is slow and my path is full of problems but that doesn't mean I lose.
I am hope of so many people, how can I lose my hopes 

Whenever tough situation comes and I become holpless I just look people around me and thinks,  they believe on me, they support me so much 
So for them I have to be stronger.
I have to fight with everything that comes in my way,  just for them.
It's not only about my family and friends, I want to do so many things for my society and for the people who are in need.  
Everyone need to focus into loving and creating not gossip and hathing.

My mission is to make a happy and healthy environment.
I aspire to be a giver. A giver of love, a giver of good Vibes and a giver of strength.

One day, you will be at the place you always wanted to be.
Don't stop believing.

ओ पथ से भटके हुए पथिक,
                        तू चल पड़ा है किस ओर
ये ज़िन्दगी तेरी है, तेरे हाथ है इसकी डोर
जो लक्ष्य से तू भटक गया,
                    किसी मार्ग में अटक गया
तो उठ खड़ा हो जा अभी
                       कर्तव्य तू निभा सभी
 झोक दे खुद को मेहनत की आग में
                  तप कर सूर्य जैसा बन जरा    
रहके शीतल दूसरों को राह जो दे सके     .              रात का वो चांद तू बन के दिखा जरा
पतझड़ हो या बहार हो
                         या कोई भी त्यौहार हो
डगमगाए जो कदम तेरे
                       ना ऐसा कोई वार हो
चट्टान जैसा बन के तू,
                             स्थिर रहे अडिग रहे    
 मानवता की मिसाल बन तू,
                               संसार में प्रसिद्ध रहे |
     
                        Jagriti Srivastava

Pulawama attack

Totally heartbroken and devastated at the horrific incident that’s taken place.
My heart goes out to the families of the brave CRPF soldiers we lost and praying for the speedy recovery of those injured.
This is an unforgivable act.
Salute to all our soliders who gave their tommorow for our today! #PulawamaAttack

यह कैसी मेरे आजाद भारत की तस्वीर है
जहां हर रोज शहीद होता एक वीर है
जहां एक मां अपना बेटा खोती है
जहां एक पत्नी विधवा होती है
एक बच्चे के सर से पिता का साया उठ जाता है एक पिता अपने बेटे की याद में हजारों आंसू बहाता है
वे जो चले गए अब लौट कर आ नहीं सकते
  उनकी कुर्बानी को हम व्यर्थ में बहा नहीं सकते
  हम सुकून से सोए इसलिए जगता हर एक सिपाही है
  हमें बचाने की खातिर उसने सीने पर गोली खाई है
   ऐ वीर पुरुष तुझ को शत-शत नमन हमारा है
तुझे अपने प्राणों से ज्यादा भारत देश प्यारा है
तू रहे अमर तेरी गाथा का जग में जय जयकार हो
बस बहुत हुआ अन्याय ये अब तो दुश्मन की हार हो
 
                              Jagriti Srivastava

My experience

Hello everyone today I'm going to share my experience with you all.
Last year I had finished my one month teaching training of D.EL.ED (diploma in elementary education)
And I thoroughly enjoyed it.
Sometimes you are most happy with what you do not want to do
So many times you have to do what you never wanted to do.
but I believe that everything happens for a reason. All you have to do is  believe in your god.

As i belongs to a teacher family there are so many teachers around me in my family and I learnt a lot from them.
My father wanted me to be a teacher but I don't because I think it is the most responsible job ever which I think I cannot handle but When God gives me this opportunity to prove my ability I think I prove my self  so well.

When the first day I was entered in the school the only thought I have in my mind is I have to finish my training anyhow but who knew that this training will become the most memorable experience of my life.
The School, all the teachers and students are praiseworthy.
The kind of love and respect they gave to me, is wonderful.
I did Not only teach them but also I learnt so many things from them.
Besides their subject I taught them dancing, drawing and some games.
They are always curious to know new things.
All the kids were very talented.
everyday was a new challenge for me that what new I was going to make them know.
At the last day of my training all of them had tears in their eyes and they saying me not to go.
but how could I stay..I gave good wishes to them for their future and they promised me to meet me whenever they will free and till now most of them are coming to my house to meet me.
They said me I am the best teacher ever that they had come to know but in reality they made me feel like yes I can be a good teacher.
all the credit goes to them.
I don't know I'll be a teacher in future or will be something else but I never forget those Enlightening things I learned from here.
This training gives me a lot of experiences and realized my worth.
I know it's a very small part of my journey and I'm ready to learn and adopt these kind of experiences which helps me to grow as a person.

I believe the only source of
knowledge is experience.

मझधार में डूबी कश्ती को निकालना सीख
भटके हुए राह से फिर वापस आना सीख
गम से तो वाकिफ हम सभी है,
                     तू हर हाल में मुस्कुराना सीख
धूल में गिरकर हिमालय चढ़ जाना सीख
दो बूंद पानी नहीं तू सागर बन जाना सीख
सिर्फ दो गज जमीन नहीं,
     धरती और आसमां को अपना बनाना सीख
जीत लेना पैसों की दौड़ कभी
                       पहले तू रिश्ते निभाना सीख
स्वार्थी सी दुनिया में
          तू निस्वार्थ होकर कुछ कर जाना सीख
                             
                            Jagriti Srivastava

क्यों गुमसुम हो ?

Hello friends this is me Jagriti Srivastava
Here is my new poem if you like it please share it as much as you can and
Thanks for the love and support.

क्यों गुमसुम हो ?
नाराजगी हमसे है या खफा खुद से हो
दूर हमसे हो या जुदा खुद से हो
इन बेचैन सी आंखों मे तुम क्या छुपाए बैठे हो
नजरें मिलानी हैं हमे और तुम आंखें झुकाए बैठे हो
ताल्लुक बनाना है तुमसे और तुम फासलेें बढ़ा रहे हो
खोना है हमको तुममें और तुम इस भीड़ में खोये जा रहे हो
क्यों सजा दे रहे हो इस कदर अपने आप को
कब तक छुपा सकते हो दिल में दबी इस बात को
हो अजनबी अगर तुम, क्यों याद आ रहे हो
दस्तूर इस जमाने का कैसे निभा रहे हो
करते दुआ यही है कि चैन तुमको आए
खुदा की मर्जीयो को तुम कभी जो समझ पाए
ना रूठना तुम हमसे ना खफा खुद से होना
चेहरे की मुस्कुराहट बरकरार ऐसे रखना
जीवन भर तुम दिल में बस प्यार ऐसे रखना  |

                                       Jagriti Srivastava

मैं दूर जाकर भी......

मेरी कविताओं की सबसे बड़ी खूबी यह है कि ये मेरे साथ हर दम रहतीे हैं, चाहे मैं दुखी हूं चाहे खुश
मेरी कविताएं मेरा साथ कभी नहीं छोड़ती
ये मुझे कभी अकेला नहीं करती
मैं कविताएं तभी लिखती हूं जब या तो मैं बहुत खुश होती हूं या जब मैं बहुत दुखी होती हूं |
कविताओं के बिना मैं अपनी जिंदगी की कल्पना नहीं कर सकती मैं इनके बिना अधूरी हूं |

मैं दूर जाकर भी हमेशा पास रहूंगी
लफ्जों में जो ना कहीं जाए
                                 वो अनकहा अल्फाज रहूंगी
वह जो चाहकर भी ना भुलाई जाए
                             मैं हर पल आने वाली वो याद रहूंगी
मैं जो बेचैन दिल को थोड़ी राहत दे जाए
                                      ऐसा कोई एहसास रहूंगी
  मैं और कोई नहीं,
                    लबों की मुस्कुराहट बनकर हरदम साथ रहूंगी
प्यासे मन को जो तर कर जाए
                                मैं बूंद बूंद बरसी वह बरसात रहूंगी
जिसका जिक्र हर धुन में हो
                            संगीत की एक ऐसी साज रहूंगी
मैं आंखों के सामने ना होते हुए भी
                                       दुआओं में आबाद रहूंगी
हां बेशक बन जाऊं मैं सितारा आसमान का पर
मुश्किल वक्त में हाथ पकड़कर चलने वाला हमराज रहूंगी
                                      Jagriti Srivastava

The one in many

The one in many.
                        The one Who stays with you, The one who believes in you, The one who is by your side now and forever,  The one who inspires you, The one who gives you freedom to do what you want, The one who never judge you,the one who is protective but also not make you dependable upon them. they set you free but also knows when to control you. 
The one who has solution of your every problem and the one because of whom you believe that there is a God.
A day without seeing them is a day that never completes.
Only their presence is enough to makes you strong.
Well we have so many other people in our life but nobody can take the place of that one person.
It is necessary to have that one person in your life.
That could be anyone, someone from your family or friends or your life partner, anyone !!

I am so lucky because I have the one and he is none other than my Big brother.
He is just amazing.
Words are less to describe about him.
I can say he is my super hero.
Whenever I have some problem all I want is him to be with me. 
I feel safe when he is around.
He is ray of hope in my life
He has such a positive vibes that anyone automatically feel relaxed and happy
It's not only me but my whole family feels that if he is with us everything will be alright.
We believe that he will going to save us from everything that comes.
He has some Superpower I think.
He always knows when I am sad.
literally he can read my face.
I can't hide anything from him.
People who know me knows that I am very close to my brother because it's very easy to explain him anything.
He always try to understand me without putting unnecessary questions.
His love and support is what give me the strength to do beyond my capabilities.
I think that's why when he is sad It Breaks my confidence level.I can see anything but not the sad face of my brother. I always wanted to see him cheerful and positive.
I daily thank god for giving me the best brother.
May be I can write a book about his importance in my life. still I am sure what i want to say may not be complete.

I am sure you all have someone like this or may be you are like this for someone. May be you are playing this role in someone's life.

I have written this blog just to tell you all that if you have someone like this you are blessed my friend
you have everything you need in life. never let them go if you have the one and in case if you don't have than be the sunshine in someone's life
you definitely feel great.

And don't forget to commenting below and let me know do you have someone like this or are you like this for someone ??

Like always ending my blog with few lines of poetry.
These Hindi lines are not related with this blog topic but have written it recently and thought to post it here .
I hope you all like it.

तुम मिसाल बन तू मशाल बन,
                            तू कद से अपने विशाल बन
तू सशक्त बन अभ्यस्त बन,
                           आकाश बन पाताल बन
 तू ढाल बन तलवार बन,
                             तू सूर्य बन गगन भी बन
तू खेत बन किसान बन,
                          सरहद भी बन तू जवान बन
तू गीता बन कुरान बन
                          तू विश्व बन ब्रह्मांड बन
समाया है ये जग तुझ में ही,
                   यहां कड़-कड़ कि तू जान बन            
पर सबसे पहले हो सके तो एक अच्छा इंसान बन

                           Jagriti Srivastava

लफ्ज हमारे

बेवजह रूठे लोग अब मनाए जाते नहीं
कि बेमतलब के कुछ रिश्ते अब हम से निभाए जाते नहीं
मेरा साथ गर पसंद ना हो तो कह देना
कि ऐसे झूठे रिश्ते हम ज्यादा देर दिल मे बसाते नहीं
जोड़ लेते हैं आसानी से खुद को किसी से
सच्चाई पर टिके किसी रिश्ते को हम कभी ठुकराते नहीं
ताउम्र निभा सकते हैं हर रिश्ता हम,  पर जिसे अहमियत ना हो इसकी, 
ऐसे लोगों को हम गले से लगाते नहीं
बे फिजूल शब्दों को खर्च करने की आदत नहीं हमारी. इसीलिए अपना हाल-ए-दिल हर किसी को सुनाते नहीं
कोशिश करते हैं रख सके खुश सभी को हम पर
हमें ना समझने वालों को फिर हम समझाते नहीं

                                    Jagriti Srivastava

आखिर कैसे

दिल की इस कशमकश को सुलझाएं कैसे
जो हमें मिल नहीं सकता उसे भूल जाए कैसे
कि कितनी शिद्दत से आरजू थी उसे पाने की
इतने लंबे सफर के बाद उसे रास्ते में छोड़ जाए कैसे
दोषी हम हैं या समय ने बना दिया है
इस सच्चाई को हम किसी को बतलाएं कैसे
कि सब समझते हैं गुनहगार हमें अब
कि हर किसी को अपना हाल-ए-दिल सुनाएं कैसे
ना चाहते हुए उठाए थे जो कदम
उन कदमों को पीछे अब हटाये कैसे
कि ख्वाहिश नहीं है मरने की पर
इस तरह से हम जिये जाए कैसे
परवाह नहीं लोग पसंद करते हैं या नहीं
पर जो हमें पसंद है उसे पसंद आए कैसे
                             Jagriti Srivastava

"HE" is Important

Undoubtedly this world is incomplete without women but we can't neglect the importance of a man.
He plays so many roles, Sometimes A Caring Father, Protective Brother, Loving Husband, Adorable Lover , Supporting Friend, Encouraging Colleagues, Brave Soldiers, Inspiring Idol and much more And the way he plays every part of his role is commendable.
Both women and men have the same importance in life.
They are incomplete without each other.
Today's everybody is talking about women empowerment, Yes, it is important but not to forget the contribution of Men in our life.
If you see tittle of this blog,  The 'He' there, its dedicated to them who are so supportive and loving.
For all the he's who do a lot for us without telling us, To all the He's for being piller of strength.
She and He completes each other. So if she is important then he is equally important.
God has been really kind that all the He's of my Life are just amazing.
I'm so proud of them.

So this is for all the He's who are the best in a way they are....

In my life I have my supporting father,
My world best brother. He is someone who understands me like no one. 
By the grace of god I have two sweet nephews, who completes my life.
And How can I forget my male friends. They always ready to help me and last but not the least A man whom I adore
  "Suresh Raina".

They all made my life so beautiful.
I want to thank them for being in my life.

Try not to become a man of success, try to become a man of value. Einstein said that. I think that’s true and important. If you fill your days with doing something that pays the bills but is essentially meaningless you are wasting your precious life. Yes, even if it pays the bills so handsomely that you can spend 2 months per year on adventurous holidays and eat in fancy restaurants, you are still wasting your life.  A real man has the balls to travel outside his comfort zone to make a sincere attempt to contribute to mankind. He works for the greater good instead of for the sake of protection of his self image and clinging to the illusion of safety.

I wanna clear it that this blog is not for them who are cheater, fraud, not for them who only know to use people, who disrespect womens and their dignity, Not for the them who think womens are inferior than them and made only for household works and defenatly not for them who are afraid of taking responsibility.

This blog is for real men, the man who  treat everyone equally, who don't tell lie just to impress someone.
who support women in every situation, the men who can feel the pain of others, the man who isn't afraid to do what is right, no matter what.

A real man is not in denial of his fears, holding up a mask of invulnerability but is willing to face his fears and work on them. He has the courage to do things that frighten him when the situation calls for it.
A real man knows that the path towards fearlessness is endless.
A real man doesn't need to be able to fight or to protect himself and his family physically. But He does however need to be willing to do whatever it takes to keep his family safe and happy.
Honesty is a great quality every single person should have but it’s often not that easy to find. A real honest man will tell you the truth and not just what you want to hear. An honest man will not use sleazy stories to get away from things or to look good, but he will tell you what he will do and how he feels about  something. It’s true that brutal honesty can be offensive sometimes but it’s better to have a guy that tells you the truth than one that fills you with lies.
A real man is devoted to the development of body, mind and spirit.
Men with integrity are highly respected and in return they give respect to others.
In today's deteriorating society, when I see that there are still some good people it's makes me feel so happy and safe.
I personally believe that if all men were gentlemen, we would live in a better world. Today, things are not like that, making the guys that have this quality stand out. Also, great guys never cross the line of being inappropriate.
It's my humble request to all real men out there that please never leave your goodness no matter what and also try to make your next generation just like you.
Because of all the Real He's, our society is progressing today.

Never change your originality for the sake of others because no one can play your role better than yourself.
So Be You
You Are The Best..

है नर वही जो सही दिशा में हरदम है चला
जिसके बस नाम मात्र से ही डर भी देखो है डरा
 निर्भय हो वह और धीर हो, वह शूरवीर गंभीर हो
सच्चा हो वह निष्ठुर नहीं, कर्तव्य पथ से विमुख नहीं
जो सैनिक भी हो, प्रेमी भी हो
                                सेवक भी हो, स्वामी भी हो
ऐसा पुरुष अतुलनीय है
                           जो मूर्ख भी हो, ज्ञानी भी हो |

                              Jagriti Srivastava