Thursday, 12 July 2018

Avoid Hypocrite

We all are surrounded by so many peoples in our life.
Some people are attached to us with heart and some others just pretend
But the most difficult task is to recognise them.
People are wearing a mask and hiding
their real face behind it .
I have no idea what they get from it
What I observe is that Nowadays people are following a new trend,
   Trend of having double personality or you can say double face !!
Number of these double standard people is increasing day by day.
People wear a mask of lie,
So they can look attractive.
      Be careful.
they are almost everywhere...
Sometimes we wonder how fast people change but actually they don't change they reveal who they really are !!

People praise you on your face but never miss any chance to humiliate you on others face. People will stab you in your back and then ask why you are bleeding....
I think they love talking about you behind your back more than saying your mistakes in front of you.
What kind of mind they have 🙄
Simple thing man if you have any problem with me,  say it to me, not to others.
I'm gonna correct myself, no one else can and also nobody is interested to correct my mistakes, all are only interested to make fun of mine. So if you think that you are my wellwisher then next  time please come to me when you have any issue regarding me. 
"Warning you   Stay loyal or stay away from me."
I really like those people who tells the truth to me, no matter how much hard it is.
I feel Real people are the best because you don't need to think twice before saying anything to them because if you are right they will agree with you and if you are wrong, they will correct you immediately.
They not gonna talk shits behind your back .
It costs nothing to appreciate good things you see in someone.
Yes,  there is nothing wrong in praising but false praise is not good at all.
If you really like something about someone do not forget to appreciate them but never praise anyone when they are wrong.
By false praising you encourage that person to do the bad things again and again .

We all have a habit of gossiping about others and creating false rumours,
without thinking that what will happen if someone do the same with us, What do we feel?
Have you ever tried to know that how rumours affect that person and the family?
If you can't be the reason of someone's happiness please do not be the reason of their sadness.
If someone trusted you and tells their secrets to you, don't break their trust by revelling it on others face.
you'll get nothing but lose your importance in that person's eyes.
I Wish people are the same from heart as they pretend to be from face.
Be careful whom you trust. If someone will discuss others with you. They will surely discuss you with others.

And tell me one thing that What's the whole point of being pretty on the outside when you're so ugly on inside ?
It's not about the people who act true to your face. It's about the people who remain true behind your back.
It's better to have enemy who honestly says they hate you!!
Than to have a friend whose putting you down secretly.
One fake can do more damage than five enemies.
Choose your circle wisely. Not everyone deserves your trust.
Avoid Hypocrite in life.
The things in all of us is that we are so quick to judge but slow to correct ourselves.
I am very cautions of people whose actions don't match their words.
Stay away from these kind of people in your life and never try to be like them.

"Never design your character like a garden where anyone can walk.
Design your character like the sky where everyone desire to reach."

Want to mention few lines kabir Das ji has said -:
बुरा जो देखन मैं चला, बुरा न मिलिया कोय,
जो दिल खोजा आपना, मुझसे बुरा न कोय।

अर्थ: जब मैं इस संसार में बुराई खोजने चला तो मुझे कोई बुरा न मिला। जब मैंने अपने मन में झाँक कर देखा तो पाया कि मुझसे बुरा कोई नहीं है।

AND IN THE LAST A PEOM WRITTEN BY ME:-

कुछ लोग भरोसे के लायक नहीं होते
जिन पर भरोसा करके हम बाद में है रोते
ये वो है जो रंग, पल-पल में अपना बदल लेते हैं  
जिनसे खाकर ठोकर बाद में हम भी संभल लेते हैं
बुरी हरकतों से समाज में कई लोग परेशान होते हैं
  कई नादान चेहरे भी बड़े बेईमान होते हैं
ऊपर से सच की मूरत और अंदर से शैतान होते हैं
मिशरी सी मीठी बातें बोलकर पीठ पीछे खंजर चुभोतेे हैं
ये लोग दूर के नहीं बल्कि कुछ अपने ही होते हैं

                          JAGRITI SRIVASTAVA

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अकेलापन

अकेलापन डरावना नहीं होता, अगर हम उसे समझें। एकांत में मन की आवाज़ सबसे स्पष्ट सुनाई देती है। ये समय होता है खुद से मिलने का, खुद...