Grow up

Please Grow up !!
Well, Don't be confused I'm not going to give you any kind of health advise which helps you to grow Because that's not my work and also I am not interested in it.
I'm here just to tell you that Grow Up as a person. Be mature enough to see the difference between right and wrong.
Please come out of from your conservative thoughts. It's not necessary that what You think every time, is right.
You can't completely understand the situation of any person until it happens with you.
Think about yourself before judging someone.
Don't judge anyone according to your opinion and also don't let anyone else judge you.
How can we spoke bad things for people when we don't have guts to bear all that bitter words to ourself.
The problem with us is that we don't want to come out of from our blind faith.
We just don't want to see the other side of the coin.
We humans, Yes, we are social creature. sometimes unwillingly we are bind to follow some social customs. Its not bad but when it create wrong impact on us then it's totally worst.Social rules have been made to improve us not to spoil us.
Nobody has the right to take your freedom from You.
Everyone in the society has the right to live equally.
We all can keep cleaning around us. It is in our hands but How you can clean the garbage of someone's mind?
The filthy thinking of people has spoiled the society.
Respect everyone's feeling. It may means nothing to you but for them it means so much.
You know the real problem is that no one wants to change themselves, Everyone is trying to change others.
Mahatma Gandhi said that Be the change you wish to see in the world.
we should have to live our life according to our own opinion, not to others.
if there is fault in anyone's thinking then why we have to face problems because of them?
come out from the race to prove yourself right and others wrong.
Support each other and this the way we really can grow up.
We all are part of this society and if we do not support each other then who will support us.
The most important day in your life is the day when you decide that you're good enough for yourself.
यह बात हमेशा मेरे दिमाग में आती है कि
जब हम छोटे होते हैं तो हमारी सोच बहुत बड़ी होती है पर जैसे-जैसे हम बड़े होते जाते हैं हमारी सोच छोटी होती जाती हैं, ऐसा क्यो ??
I Observed a lot but still finding suitable answer for this question..
The perspective of some people are so wrong that it make even the right things wrong.
People often misunderstand us but they should understand that every person has their life, which we have the right to live.
Some people I have seen, My God!!
they do not even listen to others. They strongly believe in their narrow mind thoughts. They keep judging you no matter what.
I just wanna tell them yaar you have limited mind, not the whole World have.
So please keep your Limited mind up to yourself. Why disturbing others ? 😒
correct me if you find me wrong, but do not think my innocence is my weakness.
I have find out some issues. I know there are more. I know so many of you can relate with it
it is necessary to understand it very deeply and also try to abolish it as soon as possible.
We all need to understand that If you not replying on every shits of someone that doesn't mean you are weak or afraid of them.
That if you don't know how to speak English you are illiterate.
That If there is a boy and girl walking together, it doesn't means there are having an affair.
That if you're using phone late at night that doesn't means you are talking with a wrong person or doing something wrong.
That if you don't get good marks in one exam or can't qualified that doesn't means you have not potential to achieve something.
And if you have friends of opposite gender that doesn't makes you loose character.
And if you failed in some of your works that doesn't mean you are not trying.
And if you trying to earn from everywhere that doesn't means you are greedy, may be you're needy.
And if any girl wear short dresses it doesn't mean that she wants to expose and if a boy is very friendly that doesn't means he has some bad intention always.
And if someone is an introvert it doesn't
mean they are rude or arrogant and if someone is extrovert that doesn't makes them mannerless.
I know there are more, many more we face in our daily life.
With these kind of filthy thoughts how can we say that we are really growing up?
Technical Things around us are changing and many more things also but our thoughts are not. Why?  If we can solve big mysteries of the world then why it is impossible to deal with your own mind. This is strange na but true, it's a sad reality and if you observe around you, you'll definitely find and then ask this question to yourself, Is we really growing up??
This thing does not apply to all people, there are some good people too but Good people have the problem that they do not raise the voice, they sit silently, And by such mistakes even the small problem takes a bigger form.
Set yourself free. You are the only one that knows what make you happy.
You can't be just called educated just because you have degree. you are truly educated when your thinking is developed.
And if you say you are educated and having this kind of thoughts then you are not educated my friend, Not At All.
Doesn't we have right to live our life according to the way we want?
I mean I am not asking to do crime.I am just asking for my freedom and I deserve it. 
I m not gonna give anyone's the right to decide how I'll live my life neither I m going to decide anyone else life.
Be happy and let others also to be happy. live your life happily and also let other people live their life according to their choice. This is human's Supreme duty.
All I wanna say is if you are growing up then grow up properly and still there is time left to be better and to improve yourself  otherwise at the end you'll get nothing but only regret.
leave all the worthless things in your life and move ahead towards success.

And at the end it is my simple poem dedicated to this topic....

बड़ी आसानी से निकाल लेते हो कमियां मेरी
      क्या कभी खुद के अंदर झांक कर देखा है
क्या कभी देखा है तुम कितने साफ हो
          क्या कभी सोचा है तुम कितने पाक हो
क्यों मेरी हर बात गलत और तुम्हारी सही है
          खता मेरी नहीं यह तो तुम्हारी कमी है
जैसा तुम चाहो वैसे रहूं,
                      मै किसी की गुलाम तो नहीं
अपनी मर्जी से जीती हूं
                   मेरी सांसे तुम्हारा एहसान तो नहीं
अपनी नजरों से परख कर किसी और के साथ
               मेरी तुलना करना ये तुम्हारा काम तो नहीं
मेरी अच्छाई और बुराई मुझसे है
                        इसमें तुम्हारा कोई नुकसान तो नहीं
रख लो अपनी सोच को समेट कर तुम
              क्योंकि मुझे बांध सकना आसान तो नहीं
                                   Jagriti Srivastava