Importance Of Your Words

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Your way of talking define many things about you. Be careful with your words while using it.
We can know the real personality of a person by the kind of words they use while the conversation.
Some people talk so lovingly that they win the heart of others by their words and on other side some talk so badly that they lose their respect.
Words are very powerful.
Using words we can make and can destroy any relation in life.
You can use it as a healer or also as a weapon, so its all your choice how you wanna use it.
Each word have very deep meaning, so you must have to know that the word you are using is suitable to that situation or not.
It is said that never make a decision when you are angry and never make a promise when you are happy. 
In anger you don't know what you are saying and later may be you have to regret for it and same with the happiness,for your instant emotion you make a promise which is hard to kept later and than you break it. Is it good?
Absolutely not!! Than why being a person whose words are not valuable for anyone?
  Whatever you say must sure that you mean it.
If you can't mean what you say than just please shut your mouth.
A meaningful silence is always better than meaningless words.
Words are the thing that makes humans different from the animals.we can express our feelings so openly so we must need to sure that the way we are using it, is correct or not.
There are so many things changing around us and I believe with this changes words are also get effected.
Now-a-days people are playing with words. They are using words according to their so called moods. Words are lossing their real importance.
People say something else and do something else. Totally opposite....just disgusting ....
Don't know why sometimes I feels people don't want to understand certain things, they don't use their mind and just because of these kind of people there's so much problems our whole society is facing.
Your standard did not raise only with the kind of clothes you wear but it also raise with the kind of thoughts you have in your mind.
Speak from the heart it touches the hearts and your heart never lies .
Never hurt anyone with your words.
Never break someone's heart by your fake promises.
Your words are your identity.
It doesn't matter how many times someone say they love you, but it really matters how many times they proved that they love you.
Saying something is not difficult, but prooving it is.
Can't understand the things how people cheat I mean what kind of person you are, who can't keep your own words.
In our body god has given mind before your mouth so first think and then Speak.
words are free but how we use it, it costs.
Please Understand the importance of your word. First think than speak. God is giving you brain use it in the right place and the right way.
So here I'm ending it not because I have short of words but because I have a lot more to say.
sum up it with the message that please only say what you mean otherwise stay quiet.
Speak less but speak right.

मैंने देखा है शब्दो को उलझते हुए
हजार बातों के बीच में किसी एक बात को दबते हुए
ना जाने कितने मतलब निकालते हैं एक बात के
बस मतलब की बातें नहीं निकलती
कितना बोलोगे कभी सुनना भी सीख लो
अपने शब्दों को सही से चुनना भी सीख लो
शब्दों का मूल्य कितना है यह बात अगर समझ ना पाओ तुम
कही ऐसा ना हो फिर बाद में इसके लिए पछताओ तुम,
अपने शब्दों के जाल में खुद ही तुम उलझते जाते हो
पर कहना क्या है इस बात का मतलब नहीं समझ पाते हो,
बोलो वही जो कर सको, कठिन राह पर अगर तुम चल सको
फिर मुश्किल क्या आसान क्या, अपनी बात का मान अगर तुम रख सको |
    
                              Jagriti Srivastava