Defeat Your Failure

NEVER LET SUCCESS GET TO YOUR HEAD
AND NEVER LET FAILURE GET TO YOUR HEART.
Success and failure both are parts of life and both are very necessary in our life.
Everytime when we think to do something that we never done before, a thought comes in our mind that,
Is we get success on that work or we fail and if we fail than what will happen?
What about our future, How people will react, Will society accept us or not, what our parents think, our friends start craking jokes on us and many more questions shakes us.
Failure is not the real problem but the problem is being underestimate and this is what create a fear in our mind.
The fear of failure is always in our mind.
And that's why sometimes we don't start some works which we wanna do. Its not right because if you're afraid to fail, you'll keep failing forever.
Good or bad without thinking about the result just do your work and give your hundred percent.
If You fail think that why it happen, what the thing you didn't do correctly.
Always Learn from your failure.
If there is no failure in your way it means you are going on wrong way and you will never get success on that way.
failure is the major part of life from which you can learn so many things.
Ups and downs of life teaches us the lessons which we can't learn from any books.
So accept whatever comes in life and be ready to face anything.
Sometimes, there is a time come in your life when it seems like everything is falling apart, nothing is left in life and you loose all your hopes and yes it is with everyone, but that is the right time to stay strong, to be positive and keep going.
Facing failure is very important in life. Without failure you never know what the success is.
Your biggest failure happen only when you stop trying.
The most important thing in life we need to learn that believing on yourself and being strong enough to handle all the circumstances by yourself, because you are the only person who is responsible for your good or bad and you are the one who have to face your problmes, nobody comes and say to you that give me your Problems i will solve it or even some people can't stand with you in your problmes they leave you. It is said that hard times reveal true friends.
If you fail in any work then don't stop doing it. Do it again with more confidence and more dedication. This time gives your thousand percent on that work.
Find out your mistakes and improve it.
I know its not good feeling when you faced a failure but you need to be strong failure is not the ending.
But the most disgusting thing that people do when they not succeed in life is they end their life. Yes, Suicide. This is the biggest issue that always create a big problem. I don't know why people can't understand nothing is bigger than being alive. Life is blessing which only lucky people got so instead of enjoying it, living it you are ending it and only beacuse of the failure.
Is ending your life is only one option left after failure??
No, not at all...
Failure doesn't mean the game is over,
It means try again with experience.
No matter how many times you fall  stand up again.
In life every failure is a lesson, if you are not willing to fail, you are not ready to succeed.
Just look arround you, there are so many people you can see who faced big failures and fails so many times but they keep going and today they are succeed in their field.
Its all about how you gonna deal with your failure.
Failure defeats looser and inspires winner. So be a winner not a looser who give up if they fail.
Never, I repeat never give up on anything because you have enough power to make every impossible, Possible.
You can do anything, just go for it. Do hard works and never think about failure. Believe on yourself. Its only you who has the right to decide how long you can go.
In life once you decided where you have to go than nobody can stop you.
No matter how much difficulties or failure you face but if you are clear about your goals and you know your destination than one day you will get it, believe on me. If you can think it you can do it.
So promise to yourself that you never give up and you never fear from failure.
Dream big and achieve all your goals in life. Take every challenge in life and win it.

Here is something from my heart......

हालातो से लड़ने वाले
                         होते है कामयाब जरूर
मुश्किल मे ना टूटने वाले
                       करते है हर बाधा दूर
जिनकी ताकत है हिम्मत से
                       सच्चाई से जिनका नाता है
आये मुसीबते लाख मगर
                         वो फिर भी ना घबराता है
वो जीवन की हर जंग को
                         अकेले ही लड़े जाता है
जिसको खुदपर विश्वास हो
                       वो ईश्वर का साथ भी पाता है
संघर्ष का नाम ही जीवन है
                      जीओ ऐसे कि सब याद करें
करो काम सब भलाई वाले
                       ना जीवन को बरबाद करें|

                                  JAGRITI SRIVASTAVA