Fathers Day

              ||HAPPY FATHER'S DAY||

उंगली पकड़कर हमे चलना सिखाया
मुश्किल राहो मे समंहलना सिखाया
जीवन जीना हमे बतलाया
खुशियों को हमारी हमेशा बढ़ाया
बिन मांगे हमे सबकुछ दिलाया
हर दर्द से हमेशा हमको बचाया
हमारी हर ख्वाहिशो को पूरा कराया
सौ बार शुक्रिया करते हैं उस भगवान का
जिसने आपको हमारा पापा बनाया

FATHER,
A Son's first Hero,
A Daughter's first Love.
We all have so many relations in our life but the most special and important relation is with our parents.
Mother gives birth to us and father gives us life.
Its only because of them we are living this beautiful life.
Love your parents more because they taught you true meaning of love.They deserve all kind of happiness.
Fathers are the strong piller of our life who always stand by our side no matter what.
He is someone who didn't tell you but always there for you when you need
He support you, guide you, scolds you and he do every possible things to make you happy.
He do everything for you without letting you know. He don't show but he cares for you more than anyone.
He don't cry in front of you but deep inside he can feel the same pain you are going through.
Only a father wants his children's to be more successful than him.
Fathers do so much hard works just for their childrens. They don't want his children to face the same problem they faced. They want to secure our future. They want us to be a good person.
He sacrifice his own happiness just for his Childrens. Whatever he do its only for his child.
He never say 'No' to you, he try every possible way to fulfill your dreams.
Its easy to show our love for mom everytime but its something hard with dad but i think this is the beauty of this relation. May be we not show everytime but its true that life is incomplete without father and no one can take his place.
The kind of support they give is amazing.
A father is someone who holds you when you cry, Scolds you when you break the rules, Shine with pride when you succeed and has faith in you even when you fail.
Its not just about today but make everyday special for him.
Show him that how much he is important for you and how much you need them in your life.
This is our Responsibility to be with him, to support him when he need because he always do when we need. Fathers are like friend, he understood you and believe on you. He stand with you everytime.
The one thing that hurt me the most when i think how can some people disrespect their parents, i mean how can they do like this, how can they talk in loud voice.... Is they forget who taught them how to speak?
Well you need to understand that no matter how much you become successful or rich you are zero if you don't know how to treat your parents. Not everybody got mother and father, so if you have feel blessed for it.They are not something you got again after loosing.
May be you have argument with your dad but believe me he will not want your bad, he just want you to be safe and happy in your life. So if he is saying something to you its for your goodness,  please listen to him, don't ignore.
There is a kind of Love is hidden in their every scolding.
We can learn so many good things from him. He shows the right path to us.
And if i say about my father, so i m the luckiest girl i can say because my Paa is everything to me. Me and my brother feels so lucky to have a father like him. I am his little angel forever. He loves me more than anything. I think i am much like my dad, he too love writing and i think i can write so well just because of him and in many more way i'm just like my Paa and i feel happy for this. My father always say that i didn't demand for anything, yes i don't, because i got everything i want without asking.
They way he loves me, cares for me i don't think anybody can. He can't see tears in my eyes. He is my biggest support system in life. I can proudly say that i am Princess of my dad.
I Love you Papa. Be with me forever. You are the bestest. Thanks for everything :)

This is for all the fathers in the world...

जब चलना आता था नहीं
उंगली पकड़ कर हमे चलाया है
जब डर लगता था झूले से
हाथो के झूले मे झूलाया है
जब कोई साथ नहीं था
तब भी मेरा साथ निभाया है
मेरे पापा मेरी दुनिया हैं
उन जैसा ना कोई हो पाया है
उनकी हर बातो को मैनें
सर आँखों पर बिठाया है
कुछ अच्छा जीवन मे कर सकूं
इस काबिल हमे बनाया है
है गर्व हमे मेरे पापा पर
सारे जग का प्यार हमने उनसे पाया है |
 
                              Jagriti Srivastava

Defeat Your Failure

NEVER LET SUCCESS GET TO YOUR HEAD
AND NEVER LET FAILURE GET TO YOUR HEART.
Success and failure both are parts of life and both are very necessary in our life.
Everytime when we think to do something that we never done before, a thought comes in our mind that,
Is we get success on that work or we fail and if we fail than what will happen?
What about our future, How people will react, Will society accept us or not, what our parents think, our friends start craking jokes on us and many more questions shakes us.
Failure is not the real problem but the problem is being underestimate and this is what create a fear in our mind.
The fear of failure is always in our mind.
And that's why sometimes we don't start some works which we wanna do. Its not right because if you're afraid to fail, you'll keep failing forever.
Good or bad without thinking about the result just do your work and give your hundred percent.
If You fail think that why it happen, what the thing you didn't do correctly.
Always Learn from your failure.
If there is no failure in your way it means you are going on wrong way and you will never get success on that way.
failure is the major part of life from which you can learn so many things.
Ups and downs of life teaches us the lessons which we can't learn from any books.
So accept whatever comes in life and be ready to face anything.
Sometimes, there is a time come in your life when it seems like everything is falling apart, nothing is left in life and you loose all your hopes and yes it is with everyone, but that is the right time to stay strong, to be positive and keep going.
Facing failure is very important in life. Without failure you never know what the success is.
Your biggest failure happen only when you stop trying.
The most important thing in life we need to learn that believing on yourself and being strong enough to handle all the circumstances by yourself, because you are the only person who is responsible for your good or bad and you are the one who have to face your problmes, nobody comes and say to you that give me your Problems i will solve it or even some people can't stand with you in your problmes they leave you. It is said that hard times reveal true friends.
If you fail in any work then don't stop doing it. Do it again with more confidence and more dedication. This time gives your thousand percent on that work.
Find out your mistakes and improve it.
I know its not good feeling when you faced a failure but you need to be strong failure is not the ending.
But the most disgusting thing that people do when they not succeed in life is they end their life. Yes, Suicide. This is the biggest issue that always create a big problem. I don't know why people can't understand nothing is bigger than being alive. Life is blessing which only lucky people got so instead of enjoying it, living it you are ending it and only beacuse of the failure.
Is ending your life is only one option left after failure??
No, not at all...
Failure doesn't mean the game is over,
It means try again with experience.
No matter how many times you fall  stand up again.
In life every failure is a lesson, if you are not willing to fail, you are not ready to succeed.
Just look arround you, there are so many people you can see who faced big failures and fails so many times but they keep going and today they are succeed in their field.
Its all about how you gonna deal with your failure.
Failure defeats looser and inspires winner. So be a winner not a looser who give up if they fail.
Never, I repeat never give up on anything because you have enough power to make every impossible, Possible.
You can do anything, just go for it. Do hard works and never think about failure. Believe on yourself. Its only you who has the right to decide how long you can go.
In life once you decided where you have to go than nobody can stop you.
No matter how much difficulties or failure you face but if you are clear about your goals and you know your destination than one day you will get it, believe on me. If you can think it you can do it.
So promise to yourself that you never give up and you never fear from failure.
Dream big and achieve all your goals in life. Take every challenge in life and win it.

Here is something from my heart......

हालातो से लड़ने वाले
                         होते है कामयाब जरूर
मुश्किल मे ना टूटने वाले
                       करते है हर बाधा दूर
जिनकी ताकत है हिम्मत से
                       सच्चाई से जिनका नाता है
आये मुसीबते लाख मगर
                         वो फिर भी ना घबराता है
वो जीवन की हर जंग को
                         अकेले ही लड़े जाता है
जिसको खुदपर विश्वास हो
                       वो ईश्वर का साथ भी पाता है
संघर्ष का नाम ही जीवन है
                      जीओ ऐसे कि सब याद करें
करो काम सब भलाई वाले
                       ना जीवन को बरबाद करें|

                                  JAGRITI SRIVASTAVA

Cleanliness (स्वच्छता)

So today's topic of my blog is CLEANLINESS

There are lot of reason why i choose this topic but one of them is that i am a Nature lover and i want my Nature to be healthy and clean, and also want all the people to live happy and safe.
Now-a-days we can see everywhere people are talking about cleanliness campaign but we have to notice that how much we are really doing for it. You know saying something is very easy, there is no cost for it but it takes courage to do the things what you said.
It is not something that you can ignore so easily because it is related with our life. One can not be healthy if he/she is living in the environment which is not clean or safe for them.
Not only a particular person but we all have to come ahead and try our best to keep the envoirnment clean. This is our big duty.
Not the much effort needed you just have to take some small step and you can do so much big things, if you really want to do, because only few people are serious about it otherwise many people are there who even don't care and don't wanna do anything about it. It's like they are outsider. They don't have responsibility for this.
And also there are some people who really doing a great job in this field. A big salute to them.
So, Ask a question from yourself that if they can do then why not we??
We always blame others for anything, this is our basic nature you know but before blaming others we have to think that how much we are responsible.
Cleanliness is not about taking a sweeper, choose a place and clean it only for one day and you think your work done, No, i don't think so..this is show off what everyone doing my friends and i really don't like it.
Here i am not my saying that leave all your important works, take a broom and start cleaning every roads and gutters because i know you can't.
My point is don't make the places dirty, so there is no need to clean it.
Stop being irresponsible man.
If you can't clean a place please don't make it dirty atleast.
I remember one story i read somewhere,
There is man who used to eat tobacco and he spit it on the footpath every evening after coming back from his office and it had become his habbit. And daily he found that place clean  but he used do the same thing everyday. May be he likes to make that clean place dirty or whatever. One day when he spit he saw an old man who came with stick, he cleaned that place and Sheets laid there, then an old women came there, she was blind. They both sat down, eat their foods and lie down on the footpath. That man is watching all these things and this makes him sad and shameful. He has tears in his eyes. He was regretting himself and he promise himself not to spit there or not anywhere.
The moral of the story is whatever you're doing make sure that it does not bother anyone. Spreading dirt is not a good habit.Try to make such a habit that neither you nor any other person has trouble.
Cleanliness is very important for everyone.We all have to try together for this.
Not using toilets is a very big issue and its almost in every village and towns. its not safe but don't know why people don't want to understand this, even government is helping them but still they don't want to take this opportunity. This is what i can't understand that why some people don't wanna try new things, why the don't wanna improve their life style. You have to think the benefit of it and it is necessary to think something that is good for the environment and for the health of yourself too, because health is wealth, and if there is any need to do something that is good for your health you must have to do it. Its good for you and for others too.
We all see some mannerless people who spit on roads and walls, smokes on public places and throw their waste materials arround and so much more and they do it shamelessly because they don't have mind to think that its not good at all and what they are doing is such a disgusting thing which only an irresponsible man can do. A man who is true citizen will never do these kind of stupidity.
We all say that we love our country but Is it we really do??
Because if we do than we need to understand that all the things arround us togather makes a country so if we love our country it is our responsibility to keep it clean and green and also not harm any thing of our country.
We compare our country from another and we say it is not as clean as they are
But do we think that we are as responsible as the citizens of that country?
Think about it....
We all make sure that our own house should be clean properly but what about the outside of your house that is also a important part in our life. Just like our house we need to think about our city, our country and keep it clean.
Don't think who gonna start first if you want some change than go for it.
Only because of us the problem of  pollution comes and it harms to animals too.We must not jeopardize the environment for our selfishness.
Use dustbin,don't spit on roads or walls, Always use toilets,Avoid using plastic bags,Do not throw waste outside of your house, stop cutting trees and start planting it.
Everything is in your hands, you can do it.
For doing anything first you need to be aware about it because awareness is must.
You need to understand that what you are doing is good or bad for you and for others.
We should keep our body and our surroundings clean.
Plant more and more plants,
Do not spread garbage waste,
Any kind of dirt will harm all of us.
our small mistake can become big problems for us later.
Our today's work is creating our future.
So we need to think that we do not let the future ruin due to our today's dirty habits.
Keep yourself clean and advise others to be clean.
Overall i just wanted to say we all are educated and we know what is good for us. Do not behave like illiterate.
Keep your surroundings clean and contribute to keep your country and environment neat and tidy.

सोचो कितना अच्छा होगा हरा-भरा ये देश
      स्वस्थ होंगे हम सभी जब स्वच्छ होगा प्रदेश
हरियाली, खुशहाली होगी चारो ओर हमारे
      अपने अच्छे कामो से चलो भविष्य संवारें
गंदगी को दूर करके रोग मुक्त हो जायें
   अपनाकर कुछ अच्छे गुण सुखी जीवन हम पायें
चलो करें संकल्प हम सभी रखेगें सफाई
      स्वच्छता से ही तो होगी सारे जगत की भलाई
   
                                     Jagriti Srivastava

Mothers day

            HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY
           
तेरी देवी जैसी सूरत है
तु ममता की एक मूरत है
तुझसे मेरी पहचान है
तुझमे तो मेरी जान है
हर रिश्ते से तु ऊपर है
जीवन से भी तु बढ़कर है
बिन तेरे दुनिया क्या है
तु ही तो मेरी माँ है
तुने मुझको है जन्म दिया
अपना हर फर्ज है पूरा किया
सारी खुशियां मुझको देकर
अपनी खुशियों का त्याग किया
मैं धन्य हो गई जीवन पाकर
जो तुने मुझको है थाम लिया |

MOM, MUMMY, MAA, MOTHER, AMMI,
No matter whatever you call her but the love and importance of her remain the same in life.
There is no word enough to explain when its come to your mom.
She is Not god but she is more than that, she is more than anyone.
Its because of her we have this life.
She is the most Special person in our life.
Not only a particular day but everyday is mother's day,everyday is special with maa.
A child's life revolves arround his/her mother or can also say mother's life revolves arround her children.
Think the days when we were new born baby and totally depend on our mothers for every work and the way she care no one can. No matter how much she is busy but she ignore all her work just to take care of her baby child. When we fall ill the anixety, the pain you can see in her eyes. She look after you, she pray to god,she forget about her health, she may not a doctor but knows all the way of treatment for her child. She has done lot of sacrifices just for you. Just to make her child happy a mother can do anything. No matter how much you grow old but for your mother you are always a little kid and she treat you the same.
She gave everything without any expectations in return. The only thing a mom want is her child to be happy.
A mother's love is pure love.
Can you find anyone else who can do all these for you?
We may have lot more relation in life but the place of mother is always special and above than anyone.
Wherever you go whatever you do in life but the real happiness is always you can find in your house and house is nothing without mumma. Her food are delicious which you can't get somewhere else at any cost.
Her hugs and sweet kisses are priceless.
Her lap is only place where you got the peace. There is nothing better place then her lap.
She scold us when we do mistakes and praise us when we do good.
Sometimes we argue with her, hurt her but still Mom is Mom she never stop loving and caring for us.
She is our first teacher and what she taught on one can.
She is friend, Adviser,critic, mentor and much more important role she play in our life.
When Papa scolds us she is the Saviour. She may shout loud but she can't listen a word against us. In her every action there is a hidden love for her child.
Without hesitation we can share anything with her and she never gonna judge you. She understand our situation and always there for us.
No one can take her place in life.
If i say about my Mumma, She is my life.
I wonder how she understand my silence,how she see my hidden tears, how she know my all feelings, how can she understand me better than myself, How??
Imagine to live without her is seems impossible. Can't breathe a second without her.
The love and care she gave, you can't find anywhere.
As we are growing up she is growing old, as we are becoming strong, she becomes week so its time be her strength because she is urs when you needed.
Saw some people also who are rude to their parents and didn't respect them, i just want to tell them you deserve a life man.  Don't ignore her contribution in your life beacause whatever you are in life its only because of her.
Love you Mother because she taught you the real meaning of love.
It's not about how much busy you are make time for her, sit and talk with her. Your all happiness is incomplete when your mom is not part of it.
Just work hard and make your mom proud on you.
She is with you every time in your ups and also in ur downs. She don't need situation to love you. She loves you always. 
Every child has different bonding with their Mom and the bonding is matchless.
Mothers are blessings and people are lucky who have mothers. Love her,Adore her,Respect her and never hurt her because if you loose her you can't find another.
So one thing here I wanna add that if you have this much love and respect for your mother than Its also important to respect other womens. Please respect womens and their dignity.
Guys just one request no matter however you celebeate your mother's day please says these lines to your mom.....

तुझपे सारी खुशियां कुर्बान है
तेरे आँचल तले सारा जहान है
तेरे चरणो में है स्वर्ग ओ माँ
तू भगवान का एक वरदान है
तुझे पाके जीवन निखरा है
तुझे पाके तन-मन संवरा है
माँ तू ही मेरी सबकुछ है
तेरी ममता सच मे अद् भूत है
हर रिश्ता तुझमे पाया है
तुने मुझको जीना सिखाया है
कभी प्यार से, कभी डांट के
हर मुश्किल से मुझे बचाया है
नहीं तुझ सा दूजा है कोई
सारे जग का प्यार तुझमे समाया है |
             
                   Love you MAA:)

                              Jagriti Srivastava

Being you✌

Everybody in this world have some good and bad qualities, We all are not the same but the thing that matter is Being yourself, being real or being the same person from inside and out.
We were born to be real not to be perfect.
Being real is what everybody talk about but no one wants to be and also we have lots of excuces for this.
I wonder how many excuses we made just to saticfice ourself. Instead of solving the problem we all choose an excuse and move on!!
Don't find excuses, find the answer.
Just be brave to face anything what comes and believe yourself.
Knowing that things are not going good in front of you, we sit quietly beacause we have fear. Fear of our so called Image..
Tell me, Is that crime to say what you like or don't like clearly ? If you don't like something you have right to say it without hesitating and if you can't than what's the meaning to be real??
Actually the problem is we have fear that if we spoke frankly people think we are rude,arrogant,mannerless and they leave us.
So, we have to understood that what kind of person they are who leave you for being real
Is they really deserve a place in our life?? THINK...and the answer is NO
Don't change your nature just to impress someone.
Be the way you are and let the right person find you.
If you be real in life than i am sure you gonna get some amazing people in your life who never leave you.
The most important thing in life is learn to fight alone. Don't depend on others to save you from all kind of situations beacause there are so many battles which you have to fight alone. Be prepare for it always.
What I believe is everyone is unique in their own way and we need to find out the best quality we all have.
Be the best version of you.
Be the person whose replacement is impossible in anyone's life.
Don't try to compare yourself with others, everyone is different.
Comparing yourself with others and feeling sad for not being the way they are is just silly work. Make your own identity. Stop copying others. Do what you like, what your heart says but you must have to be sure that your work do not harm or hurt anyone.
Never apologize to saying what you feel. that's like saying sorry for being real.
If you have pure heart than it is easy to be real or honest because a good heart never lie, may be a good face can but a good heart, No, Never !!
Life is all about ups and downs but don't forget what you are, don't forget your good qualities,don't forget being honest beacause if you forget than you are not a real man and never was.
If you have courage to face all the difficulty, all the bitter words people gonna say you in life only than choose this path to be real and true in life otherwise be fake like other people you can see around you.
The question you need to ask yourself what type of person you wanna be?
Remove the mask from your face and show the real you to this world because if you not do than you are cheating, not only others but to yourself also.
Be the person what you want to be not what anyone wants to see.
Be the same person Privately, Publically and Personally.
Be You and Be Proud to be what you are.

Some lines from my pen....

दुनिया की चकाचौंध देख के क्यों तुझको उसमे खोना है,
खुद के अन्दर तू झांक ले तेरे अन्दर ही सोना है,
औरो की खुशियां देख के क्यों बेवजह का रोना है,
अपने अन्दर की ताकत से इस जीवन को संजोना है,
कर हिम्मत से हर काम तू जो चाहेगा वो होना है |

                        Jagriti Srivastava
 

HAPPINESS:)

Life is all about being Happy.
A smile on your face may not solve all your problems but it can give you strength to handle it.
Smiling Face looks more beautiful and more attractive than any other.
What we do is we depend on others to make us happy. We need some things, some peoples to be happy, yes thats what we do but what we get in response ?

Disappointment ....

Because nothing is there with you all the time my friend its you yourself who is stand with you in every situation. You are the only person who can understand yourself and if you are expecting from others to make you happy than you are expecting something which only gonna disappoint you.

Not all the time the situation and the person is same as you want. So its your responsibility to understand that you should make yourself capable to be happy by yourself.

Stop searching happiness and start feeling it. Happiness is arround you, inside you.

So just look inside you, feel the joy and be happy always.

Happiness is not laughing all the time like an idiot but it is something that everyone should have on their face all time.

Don't try to define happiness, u can't... Infact No books, no author can define. 

Its a state of peaceful mind.

Now a days people are so busy in earning for their selfish purpose that they forget how to smile for no reason. Everybody wanted to be successful as soon as possible, want to be mature, want to get name,fame,power,money and they are doing all the possible things for that but they r forgetting how to live life. They forget to enjoy little moment of their life, all they are waiting is to get something big happen so than they can be happy. 

It can't be like this!!

Don't wait for big achievmeants make the small things of your life countable.

Stop making excuses for not being happy and just find out some reason to be happy. There are alot!!!

Only for a one day just go out to see the people who are suffering from their life, go and see the people who don't have the things which we have and for us that is useless. than may be you can understand how blessed you are and how much reason is there to be happy in your life

Look..No body can never be satisfied with their life.

Its human nature, no matter how much we get in life we always want more. 

Not saying to run away from your responsibility but don't be so much busy making a life that you forget how to live.

Difficulties are there in everyone's life but one who knows how to handle it and how to win, is the greatest man and happiness gives you strength to do this.

There is one thing also to understand that you cannot be happy by hurting someone.

Be the reason behind someone's smile and then you feel the real happiness of life. Its such a great feeling to see someone smile and its more greatful when the reason is you.

Everybody have their own pain and problems in there life but think if we all start to make others happy and everybody start doing it than how beautiful the scene we can saw in life. Don't forget what you do with others it will come back to you also.

If you are seeing there is ten reasons to cry than open your eyes and see clearly there are thousand reason to smile.

Do not just be happy only by face or only for showing soneone or only to show people how brave you are but deep inside you are hurt, broken, lonely. Be happy and strong by heart. Be happy because you deserve it. 

Remember that what is you're you will get it anyhow. 

Growing older,being responsible is good, everybody should have to do but don't stop enjoying life because happiness is all that matters, At the end we only saw how much we enjoyed life.

Life is Unexpected..  we dont know what gonna be happen in next moment...than Why being sad??

Enjoy life, be crazy, do something that can bring smile on your face and also it make others happy.

Be a happy person.

Here is something i written......😊

 बेवजह मुस्कुरा जिन्दगी में और रखा ही क्या है,

है उदास क्यों हर मोड़ पर आखिर ऐसा हुआ ही क्या है,

किस मुश्किल का हल नहीं ये बता मुझे

किस दर्द की दवा मिली अभी तक नहीं तुझे

कभी सुना है क्या अंधेरी रातो ने सुरज को ढ़क लिया

कभी देखा है क्या तूफानो ने हिमालय को गिरा दिया

हो लाख मुसिबतें जीवन की जीते तुमको ही रहना है

हो दर्द भले कितने भी तुमको हंसते सदा ही रहना है |

Women's Day

HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY!!

W-Wonderful
O-Outstanding
M-Marvellous
A-Adorable
N-Nice

WOMENS, A wonderful creation of God. Life is Incotmplete without Women but now a days a life of women is not safe. So much crime against womens r happening arround us.
People think womens r weak n can only do house works,they treat womens very badly. They think womens cant do what a man can do but i m proudly saying this a women can do anything and also can do what a man can't.
I dont know why people don't want a daughter, if they need mother,wife,sister in life than why not daughter??
"A girl is not equal to tension she is equal to ten son"
Murder,Rape,acid attack,girl education,feticide n many many more problems we can see daily in our society. A Woman emotions is not her weakness but it is her biggest strength. Think how the world look like without womans...
Not only one day but respect her,love her n protect her everyday because she deserve it.
On this special day i wanna dedicate this poem of mine to all the womens in the world and i m so proud to be a girl.

मै नाजुक हूँ, कमजोर नहीं
मै सीधी हूँ, लाचार नहीं
मै बेटी हूँ कोई पाप नहीं
मै नारी हूँ कोई शाप नहीं
संसार मे नर और नारी का अधिकार है समान
फिर ना जाने इस जग में क्यो हो नारी का अपमान
नारी बिन ये जग सूना है
सिर्फ पुरूषों से क्या होना है
नारी ममता का रूप है
वो शक्ति का प्रतिरूप है
वो साहस की एक मूर्ति है
नारी देवी का रूप है
वो करूणा का भंडार है
नारी मे प्यार अपार है
है धन्य जगत नारी पाकर
नारी खुशियों का है सागर |