Today is very special day for me because I have completed one year of my blog.
Thank you everyone for the support and love & I am sorry because of my irregular work. I did not give it much time because of my studies but I promise I try my best to give some good content in future. I'll never disappoint you all. Once again a big thanks to everyone.keep supporting.
First of all wishing everyone a very happy Women's Day. women's, the most strongest creation of God. Salute to them. Every woman deserve Love and respect.
I'm proud to be a girl ✌
Ok now let's start....
Well, in my opinion It's a long topic to discuss because it is a big issue of our society and it is very necessary to discuss about it. And Not only we need to talk about it but also we need to understand the deep meaning of this word "Beautiful".
God has made this world very beautiful, everything has its own beauty but if you want to see it then you need to make your eyes beautiful, your mind beautiful because with the dirty mind you can't see the beauty of this world.
Make your eyes like that which can see beauty in everything as we all know beauty is in the eyes of beholder.
Some people find beauty in lotus feeding in the mud while some others only looks for the scars in moon.
I think its a wrong criteria to judge someone on the basis of how they look. you can't judge a book by only its cover.
Beauty never comes with perfection. You become beautiful when you decide to be yourself.
Beauty is not external but something that comes from the Inside Out. kindness is beautiful. Grace and patience are beautiful.
Inside beauty is more important than your outer look.
Beauty is how you are as a person and how you make others to feel about themselves.
Real beauty lies inside the heart and the thoughts of a person not on his/her outer appearance.
The sign of beautiful person is that they always see beauty in others.
Beauty of heart is something that last forever and beauty of face is decay with the passes of time.
I really like the poem of Thomas carew, "The True Beauty". Though there are so many other poems on this topic which I like but the word he used and the way he used, it is awesome.
Take care of your inner, spiritual beauty. That will reflect in your face.
Now-a-days it is rare to meet someone with the same mind that's just as beautiful as their face.
It seems showing off something is new trend these days.
Don't know why there is a discrimination on the basis of colour, cast, weight, height. For me colour of heart matters the most,not the colour of face.An Ugly face with beautiful heart is much better than a beautiful face with an ugly heart.
Shape and size of a person doesn't define their ability.
If you worried too much on how you look than nobody gonna see the real beauty inside you.
In friendship or love you don't see the weight, height, cast and colour of the person, you only see the heart of that person and that's what important i think. You know your inner beauty don't need makeup. So you don't need to spend so much money on it. It is free of cost to be beautiful by heart, to make your soul beautiful.
"Be mentally attractive".
Everybody loves to hear this compliment that you looks beautiful. Oh yeah it's nice when someone appreciate your looks but pay more attention towards the people who notice your soft heart and pure soul.
The real beauty is inside you. What our mindset is that if we look beautiful it attract others, Yaa it do but for a short time but if you are beautiful by heart it will make your impression much better than anything else.
At this time People are very conscious about their looks and they are taking it as a competition. Competition for good looks is everywhere but there is no competition for good heart.
Look, being fashionable is good but it's not good at all to make someone feel uncomfortable for how they look. Everything is beautiful in their own way and if you can't see the beauty of something that doesn't mean it is not beautiful that means the fault is in you. try to correct yourself instead of correcting other things.
If you're in love with someone just because of their beautiful face then maybe your love will die after passes of time when that beauty fades away but if you are in love with someone because of their beautiful heart then your love becomes immortal. And This kind of love is so rare these days.
This word "Beauty" is mostly used for the females and yes they deserve. But the problem is definition of beauty is something different for the people.
We take it too much serious, when someone says you are not looking beautiful or that person is more beautiful than you. We take it too seriously and make ourselves infereare.
I mean really 🙄 why you need anyone else to tell you that how much beautiful you are.
Be a queen when you think, be a queen when you decide, no one has the power to defeat the tremendous power inside you! Your strength can cross any hurdle in your life!!”
And God knows who is the stupid man who connect fairness with beauty.
Someone is beautiful only because they are fair in colour and other is not beautiful because they are dark skined..what rubbish !!!
Where these kind of thoughts comes from and people believe it also and this is why the value of beauty products increased so much Because we are paying so much attention on it.
I don't have problem with any beauty product companies but the kind of advertisement we saw, don't you think they play with our emotions ?? Only being fair is not everything and it is not the true meaning of being beautiful and also the kind of beauty products we use it is very dangerous for our skin, maybe not today you realise but it affect badly to your skin.
Here I'm not saying that you stop using cosmetics but don't apply it so much that your skin lose its natural beauty.
Height, Weight, Caste, Skin colour and all these things is not the basis to make an opinion about someone or something.
And if I talk about the people of our society then they say because they have a habit of it, they laugh when you are too short, they also laugh when you're too tall and also when you are too fatty and also when you are too thin. They have problem when your are dark in colour also have problem when your colour is too fair and also when you speak more and when you speak less. They have problem with everything.
There is one quote in Hindi :-
'कुछ तो लोग कहेंगे लोगों का काम है कहना'
'Kuch Toh Log Kahenge logo Ka Kaam Hai Kehna'
So let them say what they want to.
One thing also hurts me very much when people laugh on handicapped. It's such a shameful thing. What they got to make fun of them? They are special child of God.
And hello!! they don't need your sympathy they just want you support &care and if you can't do stay away from them.
No amount of physical beauty will ever be as valuable as a beautiful heart.
Honestly I don't care what people think about me. Thousands time you can tell me that I am not beautiful and I'm not gonna believe on you because I know I am beautiful, I know my beauty. I may not be fit on that criteria your set for beauty but my definition of beauty is something different and I am suitably perfect on it and I just want to tell to all the girls and why only girls but to all the people out there that why let anyone others opinion bother you??
You deserve to look beautiful not for anyone else but for yourself. Your beauty is your confidence.
Real beauty is within you. Be beautiful inside & out.
You are either as beautiful or as ugly as you think you are. You define your beauty. That's not a power anyone can have over you.
And by all these I don't mean that looks doesn't matter, it matters but not that much that we give importance to it.
Don't be with the someone who underestimate you, who won't make you feel like you're beautiful, who won't make you feel special. Find a person who make you feel like you are beautiful in every way.
Be beautiful. Be unique. Make your own identity. Always wear a smile it increase your beauty. it is the best makeup for anyone.
Believe me no one is more beautiful then you. Stand in the front of mirror say it to yourself that you are beautiful in Everyway. Don't wait for anyone else to say this
Because its only you who knows where your real beauty lies.
"Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world”
You are beautiful not only because people appreciate your looks all the time.
you are beautiful for the way you thought, you are beautiful for the Sparkle in your eyes when you talk about something you love,
You are beautiful for your ability to make people laugh even if you are sad,
No you aren't beautiful for something as temporary as your looks you are beautiful deep down to your soul.
So next time when you count beautiful things don't forget to count yourself.
You are beautiful if all you have is just love, You are beautiful if you have sparkle in your eyes, You are beautiful if you have a pure soul, You are beautiful if you can make people smile, You are beautiful if you can spread happiness around you. And you are beautiful because I am saying this to you
Oh yeah I'm talking to you and you and you, You all are beautiful.
Yes, you are Beautiful :)
Here is something from my heart....
नजारे बदलने से पहले नजरिया बदलो अपना
क्या पता जमाना बदल जाए
सुंदरता तन की नहीं बल्कि मन की देखो अपनी
क्या पता पूरा फसाना बदल जाए
हां हो तुम खूबसूरत,
अगर देख सको मेरी नजरों से तुम खुद को
हां हो तुम सबसे अलग
अगर पहचान सको अपनी शख्सियत को
बहुत मुश्किल है खूबसूरती को शब्दों में बयां करना
अगर समझ सको खूबसूरती की सही परिभाषा तुम , तो क्या बात है
चेहरे की सुंदरता बयां करना कोई मुश्किल काम नहीं
पर कोई मन की सुंदरता को शब्दों में पिरोकर अगर दिखा सके, तो क्या बात है
बेफिजूल की दुनियादारी में उलझे हो क्यों
अपनी ताकत से एक नई दुनिया बना कर देखो,
तो क्या बात है
बहुत मिलते हैं खूबसूरती की तारीफे करने वाले
कोई मासूम से दिल को अपनाकर देखे
तो क्या बात है |
Jagriti Srivastava
