Being you✌

Everybody in this world have some good and bad qualities, We all are not the same but the thing that matter is Being yourself, being real or being the same person from inside and out.
We were born to be real not to be perfect.
Being real is what everybody talk about but no one wants to be and also we have lots of excuces for this.
I wonder how many excuses we made just to saticfice ourself. Instead of solving the problem we all choose an excuse and move on!!
Don't find excuses, find the answer.
Just be brave to face anything what comes and believe yourself.
Knowing that things are not going good in front of you, we sit quietly beacause we have fear. Fear of our so called Image..
Tell me, Is that crime to say what you like or don't like clearly ? If you don't like something you have right to say it without hesitating and if you can't than what's the meaning to be real??
Actually the problem is we have fear that if we spoke frankly people think we are rude,arrogant,mannerless and they leave us.
So, we have to understood that what kind of person they are who leave you for being real
Is they really deserve a place in our life?? THINK...and the answer is NO
Don't change your nature just to impress someone.
Be the way you are and let the right person find you.
If you be real in life than i am sure you gonna get some amazing people in your life who never leave you.
The most important thing in life is learn to fight alone. Don't depend on others to save you from all kind of situations beacause there are so many battles which you have to fight alone. Be prepare for it always.
What I believe is everyone is unique in their own way and we need to find out the best quality we all have.
Be the best version of you.
Be the person whose replacement is impossible in anyone's life.
Don't try to compare yourself with others, everyone is different.
Comparing yourself with others and feeling sad for not being the way they are is just silly work. Make your own identity. Stop copying others. Do what you like, what your heart says but you must have to be sure that your work do not harm or hurt anyone.
Never apologize to saying what you feel. that's like saying sorry for being real.
If you have pure heart than it is easy to be real or honest because a good heart never lie, may be a good face can but a good heart, No, Never !!
Life is all about ups and downs but don't forget what you are, don't forget your good qualities,don't forget being honest beacause if you forget than you are not a real man and never was.
If you have courage to face all the difficulty, all the bitter words people gonna say you in life only than choose this path to be real and true in life otherwise be fake like other people you can see around you.
The question you need to ask yourself what type of person you wanna be?
Remove the mask from your face and show the real you to this world because if you not do than you are cheating, not only others but to yourself also.
Be the person what you want to be not what anyone wants to see.
Be the same person Privately, Publically and Personally.
Be You and Be Proud to be what you are.

Some lines from my pen....

दुनिया की चकाचौंध देख के क्यों तुझको उसमे खोना है,
खुद के अन्दर तू झांक ले तेरे अन्दर ही सोना है,
औरो की खुशियां देख के क्यों बेवजह का रोना है,
अपने अन्दर की ताकत से इस जीवन को संजोना है,
कर हिम्मत से हर काम तू जो चाहेगा वो होना है |

                        Jagriti Srivastava
 

HAPPINESS:)

Life is all about being Happy.
A smile on your face may not solve all your problems but it can give you strength to handle it.
Smiling Face looks more beautiful and more attractive than any other.
What we do is we depend on others to make us happy. We need some things, some peoples to be happy, yes thats what we do but what we get in response ?

Disappointment ....

Because nothing is there with you all the time my friend its you yourself who is stand with you in every situation. You are the only person who can understand yourself and if you are expecting from others to make you happy than you are expecting something which only gonna disappoint you.

Not all the time the situation and the person is same as you want. So its your responsibility to understand that you should make yourself capable to be happy by yourself.

Stop searching happiness and start feeling it. Happiness is arround you, inside you.

So just look inside you, feel the joy and be happy always.

Happiness is not laughing all the time like an idiot but it is something that everyone should have on their face all time.

Don't try to define happiness, u can't... Infact No books, no author can define. 

Its a state of peaceful mind.

Now a days people are so busy in earning for their selfish purpose that they forget how to smile for no reason. Everybody wanted to be successful as soon as possible, want to be mature, want to get name,fame,power,money and they are doing all the possible things for that but they r forgetting how to live life. They forget to enjoy little moment of their life, all they are waiting is to get something big happen so than they can be happy. 

It can't be like this!!

Don't wait for big achievmeants make the small things of your life countable.

Stop making excuses for not being happy and just find out some reason to be happy. There are alot!!!

Only for a one day just go out to see the people who are suffering from their life, go and see the people who don't have the things which we have and for us that is useless. than may be you can understand how blessed you are and how much reason is there to be happy in your life

Look..No body can never be satisfied with their life.

Its human nature, no matter how much we get in life we always want more. 

Not saying to run away from your responsibility but don't be so much busy making a life that you forget how to live.

Difficulties are there in everyone's life but one who knows how to handle it and how to win, is the greatest man and happiness gives you strength to do this.

There is one thing also to understand that you cannot be happy by hurting someone.

Be the reason behind someone's smile and then you feel the real happiness of life. Its such a great feeling to see someone smile and its more greatful when the reason is you.

Everybody have their own pain and problems in there life but think if we all start to make others happy and everybody start doing it than how beautiful the scene we can saw in life. Don't forget what you do with others it will come back to you also.

If you are seeing there is ten reasons to cry than open your eyes and see clearly there are thousand reason to smile.

Do not just be happy only by face or only for showing soneone or only to show people how brave you are but deep inside you are hurt, broken, lonely. Be happy and strong by heart. Be happy because you deserve it. 

Remember that what is you're you will get it anyhow. 

Growing older,being responsible is good, everybody should have to do but don't stop enjoying life because happiness is all that matters, At the end we only saw how much we enjoyed life.

Life is Unexpected..  we dont know what gonna be happen in next moment...than Why being sad??

Enjoy life, be crazy, do something that can bring smile on your face and also it make others happy.

Be a happy person.

Here is something i written......😊

 बेवजह मुस्कुरा जिन्दगी में और रखा ही क्या है,

है उदास क्यों हर मोड़ पर आखिर ऐसा हुआ ही क्या है,

किस मुश्किल का हल नहीं ये बता मुझे

किस दर्द की दवा मिली अभी तक नहीं तुझे

कभी सुना है क्या अंधेरी रातो ने सुरज को ढ़क लिया

कभी देखा है क्या तूफानो ने हिमालय को गिरा दिया

हो लाख मुसिबतें जीवन की जीते तुमको ही रहना है

हो दर्द भले कितने भी तुमको हंसते सदा ही रहना है |